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The New LGBTQ Teenager

by: Kenneth Creech

When I was working on my undergrad degree in Sociology, I read a book by Ritch Savin-Williams called The New Gay Teenager, which argued that LGBTQ teens were no longer identifying themselves as LGBTQ.  Savin-Williams suggested they were instead adopting the belief that labels were no longer needed and that by labeling themselves, they were limiting themselves.

No offense to Mr. Savin-Williams, but I did not find that to be true when I was an undergraduate, and I still don’t find it to be true as an author or professor of Sociology.  Whether we like it or not, we are constantly being labeled and categorized by people with whom we come into contact.  The same can be said for many of us, who put ourselves in boxes, or tack on labels about who we are, in order to help figure out how to relate to the world around us.  But often, the label for sexual orientation only exists if you are not heterosexual. When interacting with new people, there are some assumptions that are made, and for the most part, heterosexuality is one of those assumptions.  Consider the last time a co-worker or friend “came out” as straight to you, or talked about going to a “straight bar” or having dinner in the “straight part of town.”  When it comes to being LGBTQ, we have painted rainbows around ourselves and created little tiny pockets of gayness, that we then use when living our lives in a non-gay world.

The interesting thing about these labels in fiction however, is that they are not really necessary.  As authors, we control the worlds in which our characters live.  We control (to some degree) their interactions with others, how they respond and react, and how much they get to know about each other.  For this reason, it is possible that we could leave behind these labels which we have to adopt as social actors in our own lives, and let our characters be who they are, free of definition.  I have never read a book where the main character had to explain to someone that they were straight.  They never “come out” or struggle with their heterosexuality, which means they are never explicitly labeled by the author as “straight.”  LGBTQ characters on the other hand are constantly being labeled, even when it isn’t important, as a way of showing why they fit or don’t fit into a scenario.  The example that pops immediately into my mind is Damien from the House of Night series.  He is the only permanent guy in an otherwise female group, and it seems to only be his sexual orientation that allows his presence to be accepted.  Contrast this with Dumbledore from the Harry Potter series, who never discusses his orientation, but was in love with another wizard.  Neither character required a label to exist or be useful in their respective books, but Damien was still sidled with one. Don’t get me wrong, I love that he was included in the series, it just would have been nice to have him be included because he was smart or had an affinity for an element.

Dumbledore never discussed his attraction to, or love of the other wizard in the series and it was only during the movie production that the world even found out he was gay.  This is maybe going a little too far in the opposite direction, and LGBTQ characters may best be served with a happy medium. When I was writing Awakened, I had the main character acknowledge his sexual orientation, but it wasn’t the major identity he assumed in the book. He was a teenager, facing some life altering changes, who happened to be gay.

I have noticed this same trend with some other YA books with LGBTQ characters, who are included as primary or secondary characters because LGBTQ people exist in the world, not because it served some function in the story.  I think this is a great sign of progress.  Hopefully there will come a time when the characters we create can be themselves, completely free of labels.  Those would be stories worth reading!

 

By |April 18th, 2013|Categories: Archive, Guest Blogs|Comments Off on The New LGBTQ Teenager

Author Guest Blog: J.T. Fairfield “Awkward… “

I’m awkward and it’s something I’ve accepted I will never grow out of. In fact, it seems to have worsened with time. Looking back on the years I spent as a teenager with body issues and a twisting tornado of sexual confusion chasing my every thought, I wish I could go back and give my teen self a hug, point to some recent events and explain how at least my teen self hasn’t gone through this yet.

I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again, I’m better on paper. In person, I’m a sweaty mess of stumbling words and rude statements. I don’t know why I blurt things out to strangers which should never be spoken in polite company. It’s like my awkwardness has become my personal enemy and, as a villain, has made its mission to make me appear as a bumbling idiot no matter how hard I try. Have you ever felt like this?

Last summer I was at an ice cream stand and the cashier used one of those card swipes which plugs into a cell phone to take my debit card payment. Thankfully, there were only adults nearby when I caught sight of this magical card swipe and blurted, “Man, I bet hookers use the heck out of those things!”

Why? Why would I ever say something like that?

As a teen, I thought simply being an adult would sweep away all my insecurities, word fumbles and missteps. Turns out, my awkwardness had little to do with shifting hormones and whether or not it was okay to like girls instead of boys or like both.

Old or young, whether we have our lives in order or are just beginning, if we’re lucky we’ll all continue to have moments we wish could be different. We’ll wish we hadn’t worn that particular dress to that certain event or wish we’d kept our mouths shut instead of saying something ridiculous which can never be unsaid. Moments like these mean we’re putting ourselves out there, testing boundaries and daring to LIVE.

You know the best thing about being an author? I get to put my characters into untenable situations, make them screw up and break down, then I get to build them back up and watch them become better than they were before their struggles. Check out Jay, the main character in the first book of my LGBT New Adult Urban Fantasy series, Caged in Myth. He has all the regular issues of a teenager, plus some of the life-or-death supernatural variety.

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Caged in Myth by J.T. Fairfield

The Bayou Zoo, where magic is real, the beasts are deadly, and a bad day at work can literally mean the end of the world.

Octavian Julius McKellter— “Jay” to everyone who doesn’t want a punch in the face— struggles with keeping the secrets of his supernatural community and his own secret…he’s gay. Throw in a dose of danger, deceit, and Louisiana heat, and you’ll find yourself CAGED IN MYTH.

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