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How I Knew I Was a Klutz

It’s been a blast writing for the good folks and readers of Gay YA—I believe in the core of my being that young readers need these stories, especially as there are so many nincompoops out there who would slam the entire genre and dismiss our hard work out of hand. Those naysayers are not our audience, after all.

I hope you’ll come and see me over at my blog, Trans/Plant/Portation, and elsewhere around the net. And I do suspect I’ll be back here from time to time, as the powers that be are inclined. Happy reading, and happy summer!

training braEighth grade, 1984. Enough of spring had popped through the soil that the scent of daffodils trickled up to the third floor of the Princeton primary school, which was set right up against busy Nassau Street. As the building was nearly 200 years old, we relied on cross-breezes for air conditioning, which, given that each classroom had windows on only one side of the room and given that New Jersey air does not come pre-conditioned, meant that we were all overheating on a regular basis at some point after April 6. Our core temperatures, however, to a great degree reflected our disparate uniform code: boys could wear thin polo shirts once winter was over, but the girls’ dresses were heavy and scratchy, not much of an improvement over their woolen vests and kilts. (more…)

By |June 20th, 2011|Categories: Archive, Author Guest Blog, Guest Blogs|Tags: |Comments Off on How I Knew I Was a Klutz

Finding an Audience

I’ve looked at stories, characters, plot devices, layering, the writer’s mission, and some of the tropes around gay YA and genre fiction this past month or so, but left to examine among many other aspects of writing is audience. Not all writers seek publication, and that’s fine, but for those of us who want to get our words communicated to the world outside our heads should understand our options, the market, and readers’ expectations. In no particular order:

Get your work in line with your mission—Looking to write crossover or mainstream YA novels? Then there needs to be cross-market appeal. But if sticking to LGBT themes and characters is your priority, be prepared to work only or primarily with smaller niche markets. I had a novel (I’ve since trunked it for a later day) that used santorum the substance, not the politician, and was told by a very big, helpful editor, that I needed to change it if I wanted to get big markets to go for it, or stick to gay publishers. We’re the writers; we need to see these moments as the choices they are.

Learn the lingo—Colleen Lindsay, who was an agent for years and now works on the Book Country project out of Penguin, told me that they’re not “LGBT” books, they’re “YA books with LGBT themes.” This signals to potential agents and editors that we’re professionals and we know how to market our projects and work with the folks in publishing. Conferences and agent blogs are a great way to pick up the ways in which the industry categorizes its products.

Be a good writing citizen—Sure, there is plenty of evidence that if you start a blog, it shouldn’t be all about writing, although I resist the notion that avid readers aren’t interested in how we do what we do. I know they’re out there because they’ve tugged at me and waved. Let’s make sure we don’t swing the pendulum too far against writing about writing. If we share some of our experiences—meaning our failures and successes—we create a better writing community than if we isolate ourselves in our endeavors. Consider being a beta reader for someone else’s project, and eventually, you’ll make some trusted writing friends. Also, there are too few avenues into publishing not to share our connections with each other. Supporting other writers helps us take a little more control in our own hands for gaining advocates for our own work.

Listen more, talk less—Watch conversations like #litchat on Twitter, which runs MWF at 1PM Pacific Time. Sure, throw in your opinion from time to time, but pay more attention to what others are saying online. Follow your favorite agents and editors in the social networking sites they frequent. Don’t barrage them with questions; the last thing an emerging writer needs is to make a bad name for herself, so that when the agent sees the name on the query, she rolls her eyes in fatigue. That guy who sends out the same query every day to 200 agents—yes, he exists—is NEVER going to get an agent. Learn what’s going on in the industry beyond the doom and gloom narrative—maybe a part of your writing time each week could be spent reading Writer’s Digest, or Writers & Poets, or Chuck Sambuchino’s blog, for example. They give very helpful, actionable advice.

Find LGBT-inclined markets—Canonball blog, Expanded Horizons, Original Plumbing, and other journals feature or prioritize LGBT stories and writers. Duotrope dot com lets writers search for relevant markets and manage when they’ve querying and what outcome they’ve received. You’ll also find out via my earlier points where the LGBT-friendly folks are, and meet the audiences who are reading these markets. Let hyperspace be your guide. What do these journals list on their blogrolls? Are there other Web sites associated with any commenters to short stories you like? Check them out and their submission guidelines, and get involved in some of those conversations. This also has the added benefit of keeping you on top of contemporary LGBT-themed fiction, what kinds of fiction different markets produce, and where your work may best be accepted.

Remember you’re part of the audience—Be willing to look at your own writing with a critical eye. Have you criticized a book’s opening when you have a similar beginning in one of your projects? We know more than we think we do. I know it’s challenging to be confident when you’d rather give up, but not exaggerate your capabilities. If you know what you like as a reader, chances are there are many other readers who like that same kind of thing. Sure, writing is a process and a labor of love, and sometimes it’s part of our social agenda. But it’s also a product, and if we’re seeking a route toward traditional publication, we need to understand our projects need to be sellable and marketable by publicity agents (and ourselves). So turn your reader’s eye, not your nervous writer’s eye, to your work when it’s time for rewrites, and it will come out a lot cleaner when it’s time to query.

Find whatever outlets for your writing that you can manage to support—Is there a call for unpaid guest bloggers? Think about throwing your hat in the ring; you’ll likely find new readers. Then engage people who respond to your posts with replies, making the readers feel appreciated and the editors taken seriously. Does one of your writing buddies need a last-minute 500-word post? Write one up. Paid blogging or writing gigs are even better. Once you’ve established a solid reputation, you can use your connections to see if larger markets are interested in an idea or pitch of yours.

The good news is that even in this economy book sales—especially ebooks—are still doing reasonably well, and more titles than ever are on the market. There is room for us in Gay YA. We need to be our own, friendly champions and if we stick with it long enough, our hard work will more than likely pay off for us.

 

By |June 14th, 2011|Categories: Archive, Author Guest Blog, Guest Blogs, Writers on Writing|Tags: |Comments Off on Finding an Audience

Pushing Fluids: Guest Post by Sara Ryan

When I met her, she was married to a man. Now her partner is a woman.

When I met her, she was an ardent lesbian who couldn’t imagine what it would be like to be attracted to a man. Now she’s married to one.

When I met hir, zie was queer. Then trans. Then — in part because zie became frustrated contemplating the costs and inadequacies of surgery — zie returned to female pronouns. Though I tend to avoid pronouns altogether when discussing that particular friend, waiting to see what might be next.

One of my favorite reviews of my second book, The Rules for Hearts, refers to my characters’ “fluid sexuality.”

I write characters with fluid sexuality because I’ve seen and experienced it, shifts in sexual and gender identity that I never could have predicted. And I keep thinking that if we weren’t all so desperate to define and label every relationship almost before it begins, maybe managing the shifts would be easier.

Of course, we put ourselves in boxes as often as others consign us there. Climbing into the box of a particular identity can be like building a fort; we barricade ourselves from everything outside and revel in the security within. And as teens, we’re often especially anxious to claim membership in a tribe. Plant the flag, wear the button, wave the banner — here I am! It’s valid and satisfying and affirming.

It’s also inherently limiting. What if a territory that once felt like home suddenly doesn’t feel so comfortable? What if you find yourself unhappy, or even just restless?

As a writer I’m interested in complexity. I’m interested in blurry lines. I’m interested in the times when you look at someone, blush, and wonder: is this friendship? More? Less? Is this where I fit? How about here? Or there?

I’m not saying that these kinds of shifts should be part of every story, or that there aren’t any number of people — and thus, characters — whose sexual and gender identities remain moored and steady. But sometimes, for some people, they don’t. Let’s tell those stories too.

 

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By |June 14th, 2011|Categories: Archive, Author Guest Blog|1 Comment

Gomorrahs of the Deep, a Musical Coming Some Day to Off-Broadway Part 3!

We are happy to bring you the third and final part of Gomorrahs of the Deep, a Musical Coming Some Day to Off-Broadway by Steve Berman, a gay musical short story from his upcoming anthology. Missed Part 2? Catch up here: http://www.yapride.org/?p=289

 

“Where did you get the guitar,” Hugh asked when he saw me sitting in the front row in English. For the first, and last, time.

“I borrowed it from the music department.”

He smiled. “Do you even know how to play?”

“No, that’s why I borrowed a guitarist, too.” I waved toward Casey, who also cut class for a noble effort. “She owns every one of the Guitar Heroes.”

When Mr. Shimel called Hugh to come up to the front of the class and begin his presentation, I followed.

“It’s a duet,” I told the heavy-set teacher.

Hugh cleared his throat.

 

Ships are like prisons don’t you know

men kept with other men on decks below.

Melville knew this from his life at sea,

he found homosexuality.

Let me tell you about the Gomorrohs of the deep.

Let me tell you about the Gomorrohs of the deep.

Proof’s in Moby Dick, his most famous book.

Never were sailors so damn tight. Take a look.

 

Tracy Borland giggled, starting a slight infection that spread to the students around her. In response, I threaded my fingers between Hugh’s to hold his hand tight. Then I pressed against Hugh, as if spooning him (which would happen tonight) as I sang the next verse.

 

Think of that savage islander Queequeg.

In bed he harpooned Ishmael’s pant leg.

 

 

What about that chapter where they all squeeze

out lumps of whale gunk, isn’t that just a tease

 

Brian Coleman’s wide mouth stopped masticating a lump of pinkish gum.

Hugh smiled.

 

To boys like me, who search each book each day

for characters like me, proud to be gay.

 

Derek Fiesler grunted out “No way…” so it was only fair that I winked at him. His face flushed and he looked away.

 

Ships are like prisons don’t you know

men kept with other men on decks below.

Melville knew this from his life at sea,

he found homosexuality.

Let me tell you about the Gomorrohs of the deep.

Let me tell you about the Gomorrohs of the deep.

 

Melville wed, had a wife, that much is true.

But his real love was Hawthorne, a dude—

yes, that man who gave us The Scarlet Letter—

Melville’s heart ached to know much better.

 

Before you say foul at what we have found

step wise and meet us on some common ground.

You, like us, like Melville, want only bliss

and that’s why boys, when they want, should kiss.

In the moment of silence that followed, we kissed, right there, in front of the entire class. A kiss that lasted several moments as Casey geniused a guitar solo. I’d like to think we earned the B+ for that alone.

 

This story is © 2011 by Steve Berman (http://www.steveberman.com). This is a work of fiction, as are all characters portrayed in this story. Please do not copy without permission of the author.

 

By |June 12th, 2011|Categories: Archive, Author Guest Blog|Comments Off on Gomorrahs of the Deep, a Musical Coming Some Day to Off-Broadway Part 3!

Giving Back to LGBT and Ally Teens

I know what it’s like trying to find a scholarship that really fits who you are. It seems they want a little more of this or a little more of that. Well, I decided to start my own scholarship and hopefully there will be people out there that realize this is them. It’s very informal and that means you will be applying for a scholarship with an amount you aren’t sure about. To help make it easier, it will be at least $200 which I will pay if we don’t raise enough money.

Now…raise money? What’s that mean? I’m going to set up a month long series of auctions in order to raise the minimum, but hopefully more. This will take place during November of 2011. We’re obviously more than happy to take any donations…so if you want to help us raise money, get in touch. At the end of November, you must have applied to the scholarship and then the judging begins. I’ll narrow the entries down to just a few or so and then hopefully enlist some people to help me out in choosing the ONE winner.

If you don’t think this scholarship is for you, it would still mean the world to me if you would spread the word. We want to find a deserving person. This person must live in the 48 continental United States, be between 15 and 19 years old, identify as LGBT or an ALLY and are working to make sure everybody is accepted…and not just tolerated. After all, the scholarship is called Living Beyond Tolerance. You can apply now until the end of November. To learn how to do so (and for full details of the scholarship) go here: www.bridgethegapx.blogspot.com

I run the blog, Let’s Get Beyond Tolerance, and it was through this that I decided to set up a scholarship. I want it to make a difference for someone. All they have to do is promise to use it for education of some sort…but that could be a variety of things!

In order to raise awareness for the scholarship and auctions, I’m hosting an LGBT Book Summer giveaway. Just go here: www.letsgetbeyondtolerance.blogspot.com to learn more on how to enter. This is open to everyone, not just those who are eligible to earn the scholarship.

So help us make a difference in someone’s life, whether that someone is you…someone you know…or someone you’ve never heard of but that is doing something wonderful in their life. Spread the word, apply for the scholarship, enter the giveaway, and live beyond tolerance.

 

-Lauren Becker

www.laurenashleybecker.com

 

By |June 8th, 2011|Categories: Archive|1 Comment
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